[Sara]

Originally Posted by Douche

Sara, you're not on the same vibe he is. Which is unfortunate for you because you're all hung up on him.

You know what they say, you find someone when you're not looking for anyone. In this case, you're obviously looking, and creating expectations.

Forget about him. Try to seek friendship, which does not require anything in exchange of attention, and go from there.

Your expectations are reeking of desperation. Let it come naturally.

And I'm saying it only because of one sentence you wrote: "it's 9:30 and no conversation yet, and we're usually talking at this hour". Fuck dude... Get a grip of yourself. Stop expecting something out of OTHERS.