[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

That shit isn't doing you any favors my man.

[upstatedoc]

[nyalpine90]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

Take it easy bro lol

[King Rudi]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

I have to agree with the rest of the crew here. This was a bit harsh...and I feel like I know your personality well enough to know where you are coming from. I think "jaded" doesn't even come close to where you are.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

Damn dude... that's kinda fkd up. Maybe try to take a break from dating for a while and get back into it in a few months?

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Write her off. Women that do that are not serious about you and/or meeting someone good. Been there done that.

Nah man... I will give her the benefit of the doubt this one time. If it happens again and I'm told to wait that long again next time, I'll let her know I don't think she's serious about dating or finding someone and it's time we stop talking since I don't want to waste my time.

[ragingpanda]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

Unlike everybody else here, I think you did the right thing and you reacted appropriately. It's pretty obvious that she didn't respect your time and was most likely looking for a free meal.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by ragingpanda

Unlike everybody else here, I think you did the right thing and you reacted appropriately. It's pretty obvious that she didn't respect your time and was most likely looking for a free meal.

She did keep saying she's going to be hungry earlier in the day. I wasn't gonna pay for her meal anyway so joke is on her!

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

Nah man... I will give her the benefit of the doubt this one time. If it happens again and I'm told to wait that long again next time, I'll let her know I don't think she's serious about dating or finding someone and it's time we stop talking since I don't want to waste my time.

What? The main issue was her just being a rude ahole after she got there & confirmed it was me! I'm not going to be another one of her loser bitch cucks

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

Damn dude... that's kinda fkd up. Maybe try to take a break from dating for a while and get back into it in a few months?

What exactly is fd up? The fact that she was a rude clown when she confirmed it was me or the fact that she was 30 late & acted like it's normal?

You can have fun being a doormat. I do not allow people to treat me like shit.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by CTinline-six

That shit isn't doing you any favors my man.

Sorry for having a sense of humor? She's looking right at me, she knows it's me.

You guys are ridiculous

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

What? The main issue was her just being a rude ahole after she got there & confirmed it was me! I'm not going to be another one of her loser bitch cucks

My reply here was where you told me to write her off, the girl I took out and wants to wait another week before meeting up again. I'm saying I'll give her the benefit of the doubt one time.

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by premier3is

My reply here was where you told me to write her off, the girl I took out and wants to wait another week before meeting up again. I'm saying I'll give her the benefit of the doubt one time.

Oh shoot, sorry. Thought you were talking about my idiot.

Yea, what I meant was write her off in your mind at this point. If she follows through in 2 weeks go for it if you still want to. Just don't expect her to follow through & if this is what she does on the regular from here on out, drop her.

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

Sorry for having a sense of humor? She's looking right at me, she knows it's me.

You guys are ridiculous

Hard to say, you might not look like your pics.

I agree being that late is ridiculous, but unfortunately you probably have to wait until you sit down with her to unleash your humor and sarcasm. I say this because I'm also very sarcastic, and not everyone gets it when first meeting. Normally they just think of it as being an asshole at first until they know you.

It's a give and take. Do you want people to treat you like shit? Definitely not, but just because someone is late once doesn't mean their whole personality is shit. You might meet a great girl who just has a hard time getting out the door on time...

[MKSixer]

Originally Posted by FuriouslyFast

I was supposed to have a new date last night. It was supposed to be 6 PM then it turned into 6:15 then 6:22 then she texts "parked" & a few more minutes go by still nothing (The lot is across the damn street from the place!!!!)

Told her I'd meet her outside the place beforehand so I'm there in the cold waiting. She finally waltzes over asking if I'm Tom. I said "I might be" she asks again so I said the same. Bitch did you never look at my pics or what?!

What does she do? Just turns & goes inside the place. Don't let me walk over or hold the door for me or anything. I said F this cunt & just went home.

A minute or 2 later, I get a text from her "I'm inside" Is she super stupid, an asshole or both? I told her off & blocked her # at that point.

Can ya tell I'm fed up with dating & this society?

I'm of two minds on this. I CANNOT STAND tardiness. It rubs me the wrong way in every manner possible. My tolerance without getting a message in advance is about 5 minutes. Her behavior was intolerable BUT, that doesn't mean you have to give it back to her with both barrels.

Leave a firm but still kind message letting her KNOW that she completely screwed up. It's far better for her to think "OMG, he was such an nice guy...I completely Fk'd that up." rather than, "What I tool, I'm glad he left."

This way you keep the high ground AND you may be doing a fellow bro a favor when she dates in the future.

[nyalpine90]

Give the chick a break, she probably drives slow and over thinking about date with Tom lol
spend few minutes in car checking her makeup, fixing her bra, hair etc lol

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I'm of two minds on this. I CANNOT STAND tardiness. It rubs me the wrong way in every manner possible. My tolerance without getting a message in advance is about 5 minutes. Her behavior was intolerable BUT, that doesn't mean you have to give it back to her with both barrels.

Leave a firm but still kind message letting her KNOW that she completely screwed up. It's far better for her to think "OMG, he was such an nice guy...I completely Fk'd that up." rather than, "What I tool, I'm glad he left."

This way you keep the high ground AND you may be doing a fellow bro a favor when she dates in the future.

I agree with MK on the being late. I am always on time. If I were left waiting for 20 minutes without a heads up "sorry I'm running late", I'd be pissed. As far as the "Are you Tom" and the "I might be" answer - I believe she didn't think you were Tom, hence the I'm inside text.

[someguywithanm3]

I would have said I was Tom and asked why she was late.

[cmyx6go]

Originally Posted by nyalpine90

Give the chick a break, she probably drives slow and over thinking about date with Tom lol
spend few minutes in car checking her makeup, fixing her bra, hair etc lol

Do you guys find that women are usually late and play that let them wait, don't seem too anxious BS?

[CTinline-six]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Do you guys find that women are usually late and play that let them wait, don't seem too anxious BS?

I'm always the first one there anyway, but yes occasionally it seems that way. If they are late I usually get a "sorry running late" text and ALWAYS get a hug hello.

[premier3is]

Originally Posted by MKSixer

I'm of two minds on this. I CANNOT STAND tardiness. It rubs me the wrong way in every manner possible. My tolerance without getting a message in advance is about 5 minutes. Her behavior was intolerable BUT, that doesn't mean you have to give it back to her with both barrels.

Leave a firm but still kind message letting her KNOW that she completely screwed up. It's far better for her to think "OMG, he was such an nice guy...I completely Fk'd that up." rather than, "What I tool, I'm glad he left."

This way you keep the high ground AND you may be doing a fellow bro a favor when she dates in the future.

Well said. Tardiness is super annoying, especially because you're already anxious af before meeting your date for the first time. But I'd probably give it a chance still since I'm already there, but wouldn't expect anything of it.

As far as giving them a reason about why you weren't interested depends on a few things. If you talked for like a few days and don't really know shit about each other, then no need to give a reason IMO. But if y'all been talking and you decide that it's not going to work out, I'll be respectful and just tell them why. It'll do the next person some good I guess

[FuriouslyFast]

Originally Posted by cmyx6go

Do you guys find that women are usually late and play that let them wait, don't seem too anxious BS?

Most do seem to be late. Sometimes it's legit, but most times they are just aholes.