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In my personal experience, I don't think being fake or genuine has anything to do with how a person votes, anymore than it has to do with race, religion, sex, net worth, location, or any other stereotyping group. I've met both genuine and fake people of all backgrounds, beliefs, and voting preferences. Personally, I focus on the person and their personal character. I have close friends that I treasure who vote differently that me and that's fine, as long as they are trustworthy and genuine. |
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Genuine people act the same whether anyone is watching or not, fake people only act with kindness and integrity when someone's watching.
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Lying, deceit, dishonesty, and selfishness are evolved behaviors (lots of other species do it) that can be highly influenced by culture, social context, and the needs of the individual. It's not whether or not we exhibit these behaviors (we all do), but to what degree, why, and when. Some amount is actually adaptive and can provide a bit of social lubrication. Too much is obviously problematic. Not really sure what amount of these behaviors constitutes being fake, but I get the gist of the OP.
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For me its real braggy and loud people. If you are trying that hard to be heard or show off, to me that means you are lacking the capability in being genuine. Those people just bother me
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I think the handshake is overrated. So I must fail in that area. If just meeting some random people, I really don't want to touch them. Especially when in an eating and drinking environment. Honestly, sometimes I feel like the handshake people are the ones hard to trust. They try to hard to have a firm handshake and look firmly in the eye. Its overdone and practiced. (may not be a popular sentiment)
family is hard to deal with, till they completely f up.
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As for the original question... dunno... I only have maybe 2-3 people I would consider close friends and my family is pretty small. So I guess I have not had to deal with many fake people. I mean at least not in anyway that I care about. Like I'm sure I know acquaintances that are probably fake, but since it's not people I have like a real relationship with I don't pay much attention to it. |
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Yes, people have been “Keeping up with the Joneses” for many years. I took this free course through Yale called the Happiness Lab (bored during Covid). They talked about this through research they had performed. Before social media, the area you lived in was typically with people of the same monetary status. You only saw the neighbor down the road getting a new car which was usually in line with what your family could afford. Now, due to social media you view people of all different wealth classes. These images of perfection, watching people afford things that the person scrolling might never be able to afford can create unhappiness and discontentment. It’s more amplified than “Keeping up with the Joneses.” This is just a brief synopsis of what the researchers found. Very interesting course. |
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Lying: If they lie to other people they'll also lie to you Gossiping: If the only thing that people want to talk about are other people - hard pass. They're also talking about you to other people. Jealousy/Not celebrating your wins: If your success makes them feel less than, I can't get behind it. I do believe iron sharpens iron and the real people will be there to celebrate with you. A lot of it comes out with age too. I'm not young, not too old, but you start to see more of the tells. As people move and grow in life you'll see who sticks around and puts in the effort to maintain a relationship with you. One thing I did over the last year was look at all my relationships and realized how often I was the one putting in effort to maintain things... so I stopped calling/reaching out. Sure enough, if I didn't carry the whole relationship there ceased to be one. I let several longtime friendships whither because it wasn't a two-sided friendship.
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Easy. Surprise backhand them across the face super hard. It will strip away any fake persona and show you how they react when boundaries are crossed. You might never be talking to that individual going forward, but at least you’ll know who they really are.
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hahah surprisingly I am. Surprises myself (both of us, really). It just took more than one try to get here
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