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      07-27-2018, 10:07 AM   #1
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Is your partner ignoring sex?

What can you do if your partner somehow ignores having sex?

You think there might be something wrong in the relationship?

Please feel free to share your thoughts.
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      07-27-2018, 10:10 AM   #2
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Ignoring my sex? Or someone else's sex?
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      07-27-2018, 10:14 AM   #3
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I would say there might be an issue. I wouldn't assume they are cheating, but there is probably a reason for their lack of interest and intimacy.
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I would say there might be an issue. I wouldn't assume they are cheating, but there is probably a reason for their lack of interest and intimacy.
I agree. If your in a healthy relationship there is no reason why you shouldn’t be able to talk to them about you needs and what’s going on. Communication is key to a great relationship. If they are cheating you will find out in the end. There are classic signs of cheating in a relationship.
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      07-27-2018, 10:22 AM   #5
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Something is off. The last thing you want to do is jump to conclusions.
Communication is key.
Talk it out, if you can that is..

If nothing comes of you trying to communicate and talk it out.......bring on the cocaine and strippers!!!!
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      07-27-2018, 10:26 AM   #6
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I would say it depends on the age. If they are elderly I wouldn't think much of it.
If not, they are getting it from someone/something else (porn, fleshlight etc) or not attracted to you.
Also might be a medical reason. dyspareunia (pain) or the like for a female, Or Erectile dysfunction or premature Ejaculation causing performance anxiety for a male.
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Something is off. The last thing you want to do is jump to conclusions.
Communication is key.
Talk it out, if you can that is..

If nothing comes of you trying to communicate and talk it out.......bring on the cocaine and strippers!!!!
Excellent point. I haven't snorted coke off a strippers ass since 2015. Certainly helped me through the hard times.
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      07-27-2018, 11:12 AM   #8
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From someone who reads people extremely well. You are posting on a forum and asking about it. This is a huge red flag. Something tells me that your mind is already wandering. I won't fill your head with things that you need not think about.

As others have said communication is key. There may be something else contributing. try to talk about it report back. I have been through this before on both sides. If you need advice, warning signs or potential ways of having difficult conversations feel free to PM me.
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I'm going to need to read this again.
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sex is part of a healthy relationship and if it's not happening then you're with the wrong person
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I'm going to need to read this again.
Would the chicken sex thread help?
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I agree. If your in a healthy relationship there is no reason why you shouldn’t be able to talk to them about you needs and what’s going on. Communication is key to a great relationship. If they are cheating you will find out in the end. There are classic signs of cheating in a relationship.
Hey Obert...

Do you think we should bring up the Horse From Enumclaw? Think it would help him out?
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Hey Obert...

Do you think we should bring up the Horse From Enumclaw? Think it would help him out?
Lol the ending of the story might help
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Play the accordion for your partner. It really works!!
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Play the accordion for your partner. It really works!!
I tried a double bass gretsch kit with 5 racked toms and two floors and custom dark cymbals and it didn't help a bit. Next up: accordion lessons!!!
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What can you do if your partner somehow ignores having sex?

You think there might be something wrong in the relationship?
Seriously?
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      07-27-2018, 04:39 PM   #18
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Like she sleeps while you're doing her or what are we saying here
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Bring another partner over! Male, female, barnyard animals? Whatever tickles your fancy! It'll be sure to get your significant other in the right mood
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It's called marriage. Get used to it.
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I tried a double bass gretsch kit with 5 racked toms and two floors and custom dark cymbals and it didn't help a bit. Next up: accordion lessons!!!
Squeezing the old box gets em every time.
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after 2 years of relationship this becomes common probably..
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