Sedan_Clan wroteSworn AT, but no, I'm a computer geek.You're sworn?
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cmyx6go wroteIt sucks. The worst part about it is that things are more transparent now than ever, and even still, there's so much dissent. The lack of accountability on behalf of some of the public makes it more difficult, especially with all of the race baiting. Everything we do is perceived to be colored by the race of the individual, and it's certainly not the case. Even with me being a black officer I'm still subject to the ridiculousness.How do you deal with the anti cop attitude these days? My SO is LEO. It breaks my heart and scares the hell out me. It's a disgrace.
Does the brass have your backs or is it like the BS here in NYC?
For the most part the brass at the station level supports the line staff; custody brass is hit and miss. It's bad for everybody everywhere though, and I really feel for the NYPD officers.
MKSixer wroteIt would depend on a number of factors, but I am not so concerned with back roads. Being a car/bike guy, I naturally give some leniency to enthusiasts. I still love a good canyon or back road romp myself.AWESOME!!
I've HEARD there may be groups of guys going on spirited drives across the country generally on the back roads. No high sustained speeds but bursts into some interesting figures. All family guys and often WITH their SO/Kids/friends in the cars. Nothing crazy. What would be your reaction if you so happened upon a group like this?
UncleWede wroteGot it. I was once a computer geek myself. Oh the old days!Sworn AT, but no, I'm a computer geek.
1MOREMOD wroteNaw. Vice is pretty well versed in talking their way around things. I wouldn't count on that being a telltale sign if I were you..........errrrrr...your friend.If I'm, I mean my friend is soliciting a hooker is it true if you ask to see the goods you can verify they arent a cop in that way?
UncleWede wroteThe officer is subpoenaed to show, but sometimes the officer can forget.When I , er, MY WIFE pleads not guilty and then an appearance is scheduled, the officer is subpoenaed to show, right? So how does my wife think she can get out of it when the officer doesn't show, even when he said "I have a lot of training and vacation coming up"?
Sedan_Clan wroteIf I ask them to pay me for sex and they accept can I citizen arrest them?Naw. Vice is pretty well versed in talking their way around things. I wouldn't count on that being a telltale sign if I were you..........errrrrr...your friend.
Sedan_Clan wroteWish it was this easy. If I forget to show, I get written up. If I can't make it (injury/vacation) the case gets continued.The officer is subpoenaed to show, but sometimes the officer can forget.
Most of the time, the prosecutor pleas it to an equipment violation anyway.
1MOREMOD wroteWe're not prohibited against lying to effect an arrest.Sedan_Clan wroteIf I ask them to pay me for sex and they accept can I citizen arrest them?Naw. Vice is pretty well versed in talking their way around things. I wouldn't count on that being a telltale sign if I were you..........errrrrr...your friend.
chowser51 wroteDamn! Your department is savage. Then again, I know some departments write up their officers for less.Sedan_Clan wroteWish it was this easy. If I forget to show, I get written up. If I can't make it (injury/vacation) the case gets continued.The officer is subpoenaed to show, but sometimes the officer can forget.
Most of the time, the prosecutor pleas it to an equipment violation anyway.
Do motorcycles get a little more unspoken leeway for speeding if they aren't flagrant like that Kawi idiot?
bigrum wroteNo woman that I've encountered has attempted to use her boobs to get a pass, but they flirt from time to time.Has a girl ever whipped her tits out to try and get out of trouble?
Do motorcycles get a little more unspoken leeway for speeding if they aren't flagrant like that Kawi idiot?
Motorcyclists are harder to catch, so chasing them isn't always worth the risk of casualties, serious property damage, etc. With that said, sometimes Chippers will give chase.
Maynard wroteThe PBA thing doesn't really work in California. Showing respect during a traffic stop and simply asking for a break will net a better outcome (....the squeaky wheel gets the oilDo those PBA stickers help shift towards leniency in a speeding stop? Are there still cards you give friends to use as a 'get out of a ticket'?
). People have name-dropped me to officers in areas where I'm known and managed to get out of tickets, but that doesn't always work. One girl that I used to date said, "My boyfriend works for [insert department here], so I'll ask him how to do the traffic school thing." The officer replied, "Well why didn't you say something earlier?"......and then let her off with a warning. Her boobs weren't out either. Lol!
eluded wroteSomewhere......I'm sure you can.Can you bribe your way out of a traffic ticket ? Asking for a friend ...
Sedan_Clan wroteHow about turning on the water works? Can women cry their way from a ticket to a warning?No woman that I've encountered has attempted to use her boobs to get a pass, but they flirt from time to time.
On a personal issue, is there some sort of official "do not taser me" bracelet or similar tag that people with certain medical conditions can wear? I have a medical condition where non-lethal force would surely be lethal, and my "get out of metal detectors free" card would be of little use in preventing a taser deployment. Of course, not winding up in a situation where an officer would need to taser someone is the best bet.....
Sedan_Clan wroteI thank God every day my man isn't on the street anymore. He's a Sgt in the detective squad and does mostly white collar crimes. A couple times a year he has to go out and do the mass coordinated arrest warrants for gangs. I hate those days. But at least it's not every day.It sucks. The worst part about it is that things are more transparent now than ever, and even still, there's so much dissent. The lack of accountability on behalf of some of the public makes it more difficult, especially with all of the race baiting. Everything we do is perceived to be colored by the race of the individual, and it's certainly not the case. Even with me being a black officer I'm still subject to the ridiculousness.
For the most part the brass at the station level supports the line staff; custody brass is hit and miss. It's bad for everybody everywhere though, and I really feel for the NYPD officers.
I think I'd be a basket case if he was still on the street. Thank you. Be safe out there.
1MOREMOD wroteIf I ask them to pay me for sex and they accept can I citizen arrest them?
Reminds me of this: https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/sgt-sells-sex-inside-army-1604254
Back story, this is one of my closest friends brother-in-law. Got crazy drunk with this guy one night. Homeboy is an absolute nutter and obviously has balls of steel.
Sedan_Clan wroteI thought, when I have glanced at the ones our officers get, that there is something listed about "violation of penal code. . . " To me that would make me remember. . .The officer is subpoenaed to show, but sometimes the officer can forget.
My strategy has always been be respectful, don't play dumb (though I try not to provide any specifics in case they're fishing), and make the officer feel as safe as possible (windows down, interior lights one, hands on wheel, engine off, pull over in an area where they're not in danger from traffic, tell them when and where I'm going to reach to get my paperwork).
The above has worked pretty well for me. But, I've never actually asked for a break-- do you think doing so would make me more likely to get one?
vreihen16 wroteI don't know that crying is ever effective. Surprisingly it hasn't ever happened to me personally (...aside from the Kawi rider).Sedan_Clan wroteHow about turning on the water works? Can women cry their way from a ticket to a warning?No woman that I've encountered has attempted to use her boobs to get a pass, but they flirt from time to time.
On a personal issue, is there some sort of official "do not taser me" bracelet or similar tag that people with certain medical conditions can wear? I have a medical condition where non-lethal force would surely be lethal, and my "get out of metal detectors free" card would be of little use in preventing a taser deployment. Of course, not winding up in a situation where an officer would need to taser someone is the best bet.....
As for a less lethal deployment deterrent....
...all of our less lethal options have distance requirements, be it a taser (...although we can dry stun up close), 40mm, stun bags, etc.
cmyx6go wroteHe's where I ultimately want to be, even though I would lose any patrol related pay increases if I go to the detective bureau. There's always a trade off I suppose.Sedan_Clan wroteI thank God every day my man isn't on the street anymore. He's a Sgt in the detective squad and does mostly white collar crimes. A couple times a year he has to go out and do the mass coordinated arrest warrants for gangs. I hate those days. But at least it's not every day.It sucks. The worst part about it is that things are more transparent now than ever, and even still, there's so much dissent. The lack of accountability on behalf of some of the public makes it more difficult, especially with all of the race baiting. Everything we do is perceived to be colored by the race of the individual, and it's certainly not the case. Even with me being a black officer I'm still subject to the ridiculousness.
For the most part the brass at the station level supports the line staff; custody brass is hit and miss. It's bad for everybody everywhere though, and I really feel for the NYPD officers.
I think I'd be a basket case if he was still on the street. Thank you. Be safe out there.
Thank you! I appreciate that. Tell your significant other to be careful out there.
UncleWede wroteYou're probably right. I'll look at one of my subpoena's today and confirm.Sedan_Clan wroteI thought, when I have glanced at the ones our officers get, that there is something listed about "violation of penal code. . . " To me that would make me remember. . .The officer is subpoenaed to show, but sometimes the officer can forget.
Obioban wroteIt doesn't hurt to ask. You're already detained at that point. I recommend it.Does asking for a break make it more likely you'll get one?
My strategy has always been be respectful, don't play dumb (though I try not to provide any specifics in case they're fishing), and make the officer feel as safe as possible (windows down, interior lights one, hands on wheel, engine off, pull over in an area where they're not in danger from traffic, tell them when and where I'm going to reach to get my paperwork).
The above has worked pretty well for me. But, I've never actually asked for a break-- do you think doing so would make me more likely to get one?
