I'm still not a fan of getting rid of all manual controls in favor of their screen based facsimiles but I do like the big screens and being able to customize the look, etc. One reason I lease is I like a change every few years so being able to alter my in car experience without actually getting a new vehicle is nice. I'm also a tech nerd so continually chasing the new gadgets. There are pros and cons to each with hopefully the majority falling on the former. When they stop offering new meaningful features, I'll feel less inclined to change as often. The new iPhone had zero new feature appeal to me (it gets less and less with every iteration) so I didn't upgrade which is different for me as usually I get the new version most years.
To me, the "driving experience" is more about the feel of the drive and performance when driving for fun. When I'm in that driving zone, especially in the twisties, my eyes are on the road and not what's in the car. Commuting to me, is not a "driving experience". It's movement from point a to b as efficiently and safely as possible. Others may feel differently and that's OK, you do you.